Today was the perfect example of the importance of going off the beaten path on a journey. I was on my way to my two day get away and decided to visit a nearby attraction that I’ve always wanted to see. Not only was it incredibly beautiful… I had the opportunity to meet some very nice people and take some amazing photos. I’ve been on a little hiatus as of late with my photography and it felt so wonderful and relaxing to look at the world from the refreshing perspective of a camera.
The detour also provided some extra activity time to stall the time needed to check into this amazing resort. Wow! On the ocean, two golf courses, several pools, a one bedroom suite, my own concierge… was not expecting this! I feel incredibly spoiled and I’ll take it. After all, it IS my “ME” weekend. Time to get my brain in alignment and figure out what I need to focus on in my future. I try to do this at least once a year. This place is perfect.
I can’t tell you how bad I wanted to reach out and call one of my NSA boys to meet me here and have a much needed booty call. But, then, I thought… this weekend is about me. Hopefully soon, though… this girl is really in need of some lovin’. It’s been too long. I’m also contemplating to jump back into the official dating scene and see if a long term relationship in more in order. I don’t want to play second fiddle anymore. The sex is amazing and so risky, but when all is said and done… it’s so empty, too. I just need to figure which type of relationship I WANT to pursue. Both have their benefits and not so desirable aspects. Perhaps the NSA thing can sustain me until Mr. Right comes along. Who knows, really. One day at a time, I guess.
Went kayaking yesterday. Such a beautiful place with clear blue spring water. You could see all the way to the bottom. Gorgeous! The trip became interesting, though. The friend I usually go with brought someone with him that I’m not sure how to describe their relationship. I know that they dated in the past. I think they may have a friends with benefits going on. Or something… so hard to tell. I’m completely easy to get along with… however, she was so stand offish from the moment she arrived at the meeting location. I think she thought we were all there for her. She didn’t talk the entire way to the kayak location and then lurked 20-30min behind the rest of us so that my kayak friend would stay back with her and tow her. He did it, of course, like a little puppy dog. But it made for a very segregated trip where they lurked behind and we moved forward at a slow pace yet somehow ended up 20-30min ahead. She was just inconsiderate, that’s all. And THAT is a bit of a pet peeve of mine. So… needless to say… I won’t be going on many trips if she’ there. (Unless, of course, there are lots of really cool people who go along, too.)
Ok… Off my soapbox. And signing off, too. Relaxing day ahead tomorrow. Looking forward to it! 🙂
Just My Life :) 